

Nowdays I'm pretty zen about all this, I never ponder or care for sex in the sense that it bothers me. I became a alcoholic and I've been batteling depressions for more than a decade (I'm 27 now). I became a sex addict because I wanted validation, I slept with more women than I can literally count and although I will admit there is a great learning in this (as we learn from mistakes) and some great adventures, there was also a heavy toll on my psyche.

Tho in truth I was still a wreck in my persona, I followed the whole "the game" view of sex and interaction where-in I'd be someone I was not to gain something I truly didn't want: Sex, and gratification Only the person they had sex with was not truly "me", it was this person I played to have sex with them. Then I did my conscript service and noticed I'd grown up to be a fairly good-looking person. Hell the first time I made out with a woman my legs were shacking afterwards (even when drunk) because it took such a toll on my weak confidence. And even then, the first few times I'd actually tremble. Here's why I fully disagree with this sentiment.Ī disclaimer first, since I'm largely anonymous in that no one here knows who I am nor cares I'm just gonna give my view on romance and sex from my experience and hope that people take it at face value.Ī short introduction I was heavily picked on as a kid, didn't have any real friends up until I was 16+ and during the first years of drinking and socialising (16-19) I literally had to drink myself ****faced to even talk to women. As such, I am fully aware that the majority of people backing a game made by such a man mostly share his notion.

(n.d.).First off, let me clarify that I know that one of the main dev's has explicitly said he does not like/enjoy romance in games. The Elder Scrolls Online (2014): Bameli the Pure Hadrill Diina Jakarn Arlie Edrald, Frederick and Dulkhi Make-Many-Waves and Sendrasa Llarys Goveled Herendas Captain Linwen and Faenir Hartmin and Mirllir Snaehild Sind and Tand Davilia Ralas Captain Rana and Sargeant Seyne Erirus Cine and Therich Roielle Little Leaf The Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion (2006): Ahzirr Trajijazaeri Viranus Dolton and Eduard Hodge Dumag Gro-Bonk Pelinal City-Swimmer

The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim (2011): Bjornolfr and Hrodulf, Same-sex Relationship Options The Elder Scrolls III: Morrowind (2002): Vivec Uncle Crassius Curio Argonians Daedric Prince Boethiah Mephala Molag Bal Buoyant Armigers The Elder Scrolls II: Daggerfall (1996): Jaciel Morgen and Deyanira KatreceĪn Elder Scrolls Legend: Battlespire (1997): Pun/joke about the Khajiiti Navy NPC same-sex spouses Lord Killbar There is only one known explicitly queer couple in the game (in the Dragonborn DLC). In The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim, players are able to marry NPCs regardless of gender, as long as they have an Amulet of Mara and have met that NPC’s requirements for marriage.
